Parents

Teaching children about alcohol

Children usually become aware of alcohol and drinking from an early age. There's a lot you can do - probably more than you think - to influence your children in a positive way, so they can make responsible decisions about alcohol in the future.


If your child is 8-11

This is the age when some children may have their first taste of alcohol. On special occasions, some parents choose to let them have a sip. Definitely keep drink out of bounds unless you offer it and are around to supervise. You can also explain that drinking too much is harmful.


If your child is 12-14

At this age, some children may start drinking at parties and friends' houses. So this is a good age to explain how alcohol affects the body and what can happen when people drink too much.

If you find out they've been drinking without your permission, stay calm. Listen. Try to understand what happened. Talk about ways to avoid this happening again.


If your child is 15-17

They probably spend a lot of time with friends and going out. Some teenagers of this age are beginning to drink on a regular basis. And at this age they're highly influenced by people of their own age group and slightly older, as this age group is most likely to binge drink. So make sure you know where they are and who they're with. Be clear that you're still in charge - but only because you care about their safety, health and future.

Kids of this age will also take their cues from you – their parents and older adults. In fact one of the strongest influencers of teen behaviour with alcohol is the role modelling they experience from adults around them. So be aware that your own behaviour with alcohol will have a big influence on their behaviour. The more you can make it normal to drink in moderation, the better off they’ll be.


It's the law
Remember that:

  • It's illegal for children under five to drink alcohol
  • Police can confiscate alcohol from under 18s if they're drinking in a public place.

Under 18s are not allowed to buy alcohol and it is illegal to sell it to them.